Well having a certain relationship with others like friends, family and maybe partnership; somtimes can be confusing and many do grow apart in many ways. People views and thoughts just grow and differ. U may look at the friends u have now, some of them might not be the same kids that u grew up with in elementry or even middle school. I find my self looking through my past and how i grown apart from certain friends and how they have grown away from me. I take this overview, as if i made a mistake, like i did somthing wrong to not make our friendship work or even a past relationship. For instance I used to love skateboard around town with my best friend and we used to agree with eachothers view topics or even who was the best pro skater. But if feel that every word that he says know i have to cut him off, and make a debate for my view on the topic or how he would ask me to hangout go skating with him i would sometimes have to deny him. I dont want to be a dick, and bail on a friend but i think over time everyone grows up and have other views upon the world. Well wat REALLY got me think am i the mess up or this is apart of growing up a girl that i used love and go to the end of the world for. I remeber on valentines day during high school i would surpise her with flowers and balloons even a box of choclate covered strawberrys. But now i dont even have a moment of the time of the day to hangout or even wanting.
I guess this is a process of growing up, i mean in the end friends will always be friends and same goes with family. Even a past relationship can mend into having a friendship in the end. Growing apart may sometimes b a little overwhelm cause u just dont know how to take it but as long at the end of the day that u can see that everything is alright thats thats the only reinsurence u need.
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Relationships definitely change over time. Some people we hold onto, others we outgrow (or maybe diverge from in our growth). Time shakes it all out, I think. For me, the key thing is that I try to be myself, that I try to respect others, and that I act with kindness and generosity of spirit as often as possible. And then I trust in the universe the outcomes are what should be.
I totally understand what your talking abut. Growing up you do lose some friends and become closer to others.
man i hate to admit it...but you are soooo right..i mean i was really close to someone for alomost all of highschool and then all of a sudden out of nowhere she just started acting strange and then she went on with other people and so did i...i kind of think its sad that things like this happen but hey we all gotta grow up and move on
Word. its like you go through phases of friends. it happens to all of us, if i sat back and tried to think of times where that has happened to me i can think of so many people that i have grown apart from over the years.
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